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seldnei... and the fact that I'm a big ball of brooding and obsessiveness. It's another 30 Day meme! Which means it'll take me six weeks, even if I double up on days when all I do is snark at a topic!
But what the heck. It'll be fun. Or "fun."
Day 01 - Your current relationship. If single, discuss how single life is.
Okay, I don't think anyone needs the full-on blow-by-blow of the 19 years that are the Laura and Scott saga, but our relationship is ... well, sometimes it's the most awesome thing ever and we are totally in sync, having fun and reading each others' thoughts, cracking one another up. And then sometimes it's not all that great and we're misunderstanding each other all over the place, rolling eyes at each other and arguing.
It's, you know, a marriage (when I talk about my marriage, I'm including the years we weren't actually married, by the way. I know, I know, but it's my brain). What are you going to do? I like the guy. He likes me. We've been through one hell of a lot of stuff together, good and bad and sometimes ugly, and yet here we are watching Torchwood and snarking at it. We made a Zweeble. And if you think being together for sixteen years before you have a baby together means you can predict what sort of parenting style your partner will have ... well, think again, my friend. New aspects of our personalities abound nowadays.
He's still my favorite person to hang out with. He's a good kisser. Making him laugh always makes my day; I never expect to, and then I'll say something and that hilarious giggle bursts forth and for a moment, I am a god. :)
I like my relationship. It's my foundation.
Day 02 - Where you'd like to be in 10 years
Day 03 - Your views on drugs and alcohol
Day 04 - Your views on religion
Day 05 - A time you thought about ending your own life
Day 06 - Write 30 interesting facts about yourself
Day 07 - Your zodiac sign and if you think it fits your personality
Day 08 - A moment you felt the most satisfied with your life
Day 09 - How you hope your future will be like
Day 10 - Discuss your first love and first kiss
Day 11 - Put your iPod on shuffle and write 10 songs that pop up
Day 12 - Bullet your whole day
Day 13 - Somewhere you'd like to move or visit
Day 14 - Your earliest memory
Day 15 - Your favorite LJs
Day 16 - Your views on mainstream music
Day 17 - Your highs and lows of this past year
Day 18 - Your beliefs
Day 19 - Disrespecting your parents
Day 20 - How important you think education is
Day 21 - One of your favorite shows
Day 22 - How have you changed in the past two years?
Day 23 - Give pictures of five guys who are famous who you find attractive
Day 24 - Your favorite movie and what it's about
Day 25 - Someone who fascinates you and why
Day 26 - What kind of person attracts you
Day 27 - A problem that you have had
Day 28 - Something that you miss
Day 29 - Goals for the next thirty days
Day 30 - Your highs and lows of the month
But what the heck. It'll be fun. Or "fun."
Day 01 - Your current relationship. If single, discuss how single life is.
Okay, I don't think anyone needs the full-on blow-by-blow of the 19 years that are the Laura and Scott saga, but our relationship is ... well, sometimes it's the most awesome thing ever and we are totally in sync, having fun and reading each others' thoughts, cracking one another up. And then sometimes it's not all that great and we're misunderstanding each other all over the place, rolling eyes at each other and arguing.
It's, you know, a marriage (when I talk about my marriage, I'm including the years we weren't actually married, by the way. I know, I know, but it's my brain). What are you going to do? I like the guy. He likes me. We've been through one hell of a lot of stuff together, good and bad and sometimes ugly, and yet here we are watching Torchwood and snarking at it. We made a Zweeble. And if you think being together for sixteen years before you have a baby together means you can predict what sort of parenting style your partner will have ... well, think again, my friend. New aspects of our personalities abound nowadays.
He's still my favorite person to hang out with. He's a good kisser. Making him laugh always makes my day; I never expect to, and then I'll say something and that hilarious giggle bursts forth and for a moment, I am a god. :)
I like my relationship. It's my foundation.
Day 02 - Where you'd like to be in 10 years
Day 03 - Your views on drugs and alcohol
Day 04 - Your views on religion
Day 05 - A time you thought about ending your own life
Day 06 - Write 30 interesting facts about yourself
Day 07 - Your zodiac sign and if you think it fits your personality
Day 08 - A moment you felt the most satisfied with your life
Day 09 - How you hope your future will be like
Day 10 - Discuss your first love and first kiss
Day 11 - Put your iPod on shuffle and write 10 songs that pop up
Day 12 - Bullet your whole day
Day 13 - Somewhere you'd like to move or visit
Day 14 - Your earliest memory
Day 15 - Your favorite LJs
Day 16 - Your views on mainstream music
Day 17 - Your highs and lows of this past year
Day 18 - Your beliefs
Day 19 - Disrespecting your parents
Day 20 - How important you think education is
Day 21 - One of your favorite shows
Day 22 - How have you changed in the past two years?
Day 23 - Give pictures of five guys who are famous who you find attractive
Day 24 - Your favorite movie and what it's about
Day 25 - Someone who fascinates you and why
Day 26 - What kind of person attracts you
Day 27 - A problem that you have had
Day 28 - Something that you miss
Day 29 - Goals for the next thirty days
Day 30 - Your highs and lows of the month
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Date: 2011-03-01 02:22 pm (UTC)Its nice to talk with someone who has also been with the same person for a while. So many people I know give me a weird look when I tell them about how ling my relationship has lasted.
And its good to know you can't predict parenting styles. Because I think that I would be very freaked if the things he currently THINKS he'll do are really what he'd do.
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Date: 2011-03-01 07:06 pm (UTC)We only have one set of friends who have been together longer than we have, by about four years. But now we're all older, so even though we've still been together for a longer time, our other friends are also, mostly, in long-term relationships.
And, oh my, god, we totally thought I'd be the disciplinarian and he'd be the fun, goofy parent--and he is pretty goofy and fun, but he is *so* much more the hardass than I am. Plus, in my experience, about 85% of the things you think you'll do as a parent go out the window by about month 3, anyway ... :)
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Date: 2011-03-02 12:16 am (UTC)IE: "My child will NEVER be in gymnastics because the people in my family do not leave the ground." Because apparently just because something is true for him, it will also be true of his kid.
...Yeah right.
But yeah, we also think I'm going to be 'mean mommy'. Laaaaaauuraaaaaa, I donwanna be the bad guy!!!
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Date: 2011-03-09 03:06 am (UTC)It's not so bad, being the bad guy. Granted, it's more entertaining when someone else is being the strict parent ... plus, usually when you're being the bad guy it's because the kid is being horrific, so you don't feel much, if any, guilt. Or so I have found. I got fired the other day because he didn't like me (for the third time!).